A billion songs have been written about it. Everyone’s searching for it, wanting it, craving it, and once they’ve found it, they’re doing everything they can to fall deeper into it, nourish it, and hold onto it… forever.

Sure, all you need is love, but any loving relationship also takes work to keep it healthy and strong. Spa Week’s Healthy Relationship Expert Andrea Syrtash, host of our LOVE Challenge: Commit to 15 minutes of Daily Date Talk, will tell you that it is definitely not always easy. Her latest book Cheat On Your Husband (With Your Husband) teaches valuable lessons about how to “date” your spouse to keep that spark alive. Start now — join the Challenge event on Facebook — and take in 10 of Andrea’s wisest pieces of advice for your love life.

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